Discovering the Gateway to Liberation

Without the voice of the trainers and clinicians in my ear my riding on Jim faltered as I couldn’t ignore his signals of discomfort with the bit, the spurs, the crop and ultimately the saddle too.  Was I simply inept as a rider? Perhaps.  But do horses not also resist or evade competent riders who may be better adept at overruling them?  They do (and it often does not go unnoticed) . Not living up to the standards of my original equestrian dreams was disappointing, as well as confusing. Trying to avoid feeling as though it wasn’t a good idea in the first place actually kept hope alive while self-doubt rose and self-esteem fell. Could I turn things around? Besides […]

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Buying Happiness in a Horse Ranch of Our Own

You may have heard the humorous saying, “Whoever said that money can’t buy happiness never bought a horse.” I did buy a horse, my husband did too. And I was pretty happy.  But I thought I could be even happier if I had my own horse property! Getting out from under the limitations and challenges of boarding situations, having our own acreage on which to keep our horses and make our home sounded like it would seal the deal for happiness with horses. No more long commutes, no more public ranch peer pressure or irritation. Just peace and quiet to enjoy our horses from the convenience of home. That we could even consider acquisition of horses, let alone a property […]

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